Titilope Anifowoshe Profer solutions to life tribulations, do not delve into illegality to shine

Anifowoshe Titilope Esq the Founder of Eagle Foundation NGO Writes about Life Tribulation and Profer Solutions 

I penned my thoughts on my whatsapp status. 

I’ll share here.. it’s quite long tho

Out of school without a pay

Out of school without money..

Out of school without a job..

Broke,down, alone and lonely..

Even your Real Gs don’t hangout with you anymore

Out of school without friends..

You don’t even know who a real friend is anymore..

Everyone seems uncomfortable with your torn pocket and weak self esteem..

Not even your girlfriend could be your rock.

She promised to be your ride or die, but she’s riding in another guy’s Bugati 

Even your mummy isn’t proud to showcase you to her friends..

Hopeful she is, but her face shows her disappointment..

Family, friends and Facebook friends no longer fill your DM with messages..

You just want to runaway from everything

Interviews, internships, conferences..

You have featured..

Beautiful CV,intellectual cover letter, mad ass presentations.

You have tried and tried..

You even got a masters degree to increase your marketability!

Shit still ain’t working!

You are unemployed but employed in the head.

You now run errands and engage in domestic errands.

Most active on whatsapp.. Twitter amebo.. Facebook commentator.

You are everywhere but nowhere.

🤦🏼‍♀️ In everything you see opportunities.

But those opportunities seem vain and unattainable.

Where is God?

Where is God?

You are barely 25 and this bitter and depressed.

Even when you hide your bitterness, it’s all over your face.

Walahi adulthood is a scam.

You were far better and happier as an undergraduate.

Why and where has things gone wrong?

Those uncles and aunts you thought will help aren’t forthcoming!

Life is unfair

Well, in the book, God said Fainamal al usro, inama al usra..

Ease I pray for.. ease I want.. but worry is all I see.

Today I’m glad about the potentials of being employed.

Tomorrow I discover that they value not their employees mz

Then I discovered that I spend over

70% of my salary on transport and feeding.

How am I supposed to survive?

I thought that employment letter killed my hardships and ushered in the ease Allah spoke about in the Qur’an?

Why is this new job not as beautiful as I thought?

Why are junior staffs treated this way?

Did Slavery not end in the 20th century?

Ya Allah! Why and how did our parents make it? 

How and when will I be able to reward them for their sufferings on me?

When are we going to purchase a car without stealing the money to buy it?

How can we build a house without engaging in rituals?

How can we benefit enough to thank our parents?

At what point will our struggles in school profit us?

😰😢 I sincerely do not have an answer to these questions.

My thoughts and prayers are with every young person out there.

I know it’s hard!

It’s really difficult my man..

My lady, I understand perfectly how you feel.

I see your struggles. 

I understand it.

we will get there!

Somehow, someway; we will live to tell the tales of our struggles.

With God on your side. With utmost hardwork, honesty and resilience; You will conquer.

It’s just a matter of time!

Do not soul your hands to look clean.

Do not delve into illegality to shine.

Please be patient.

May Allah’s Rahmah be with us all. #LegalEagle